Frequently Asked Questions
Your Questions, Answered
Will the masseur and I be nude during the massage?
Yes. I am trained to offer you a highly sensual and intimate experience. From extensive experience I know that it helps to create mutual trust and respect for each other if we are both naked. I will always treat you with the utmost care and respect and will ask if it is OK to undress you. My clients often tell me that this can feel very intimate and is an experience which they have not had before.​
Can I touch the Masseur?
I am trained to take you on a journey of ecstasy and bliss. I believe that it is important that the boundaries between client and masseur are respected. This helps you to feel safe and secure, knowing that the masseur is there to offer you the most wonderful massage. If you were to touch your masseur too actively then the session could become something other than the lovely Tantra massage experience you have purchased. Touch that is too ‘active’ might also require me to divert some of my concentration into managing my own ‘energies’ and thus detract from your experience. However, I also understand that sometimes the receiver can feel more comfortable when touching the masseur gently and calmly. Please talk with me beforehand to agree what is appropriate for us both within the boundaries of the massage offered.
Can I / Will I ejaculate in the Massage?
Each tantric massage I offer is different. In some of the Tantra massages it may be really useful to 'hold on to’ your energy, other ‘conventional’ massages don't have any genital contact. Where neither of those considerations apply, we invite you to relax and let your body respond however it will.
If you do have an erection, orgasm, or ejaculation during your massage - Great !: if you don't have an erection, orgasm, or ejaculation during your massage, also Great!
In Tantra everything is OK; you and your responses are accepted just as they are.
Will the masseur become sexual too / cum?
I believe it is really important that the boundaries between client and masseur are respected. It would be unfair of me to engage in sexual activity with you because that would take away from what it is that you have purchased. My role is to pamper you and facilitate the best Tantric experience for you. If I were to engage in sexual activity with you, then it could mean that I was fulfilling my own needs and not yours. You are paying for my time which is dedicated in that period to your sheer ecstasy and pleasure.
Can I bring a partner too?
Typically your experience will be between you and me. Partners are very welcome to come and receive as a double appointment ( one massage after another ). Please let me know if you and your partner would like to receive a massage together in the same session.
What oil do you use?
I normally use plant origin ‘base’ oils for my massages. If you have any allergies please tell me about these when you book or on arrival.
Can I shower afterwards?
A shower is available; please let me know at the start of the session if you would like to shower. Many recipients prefer just to remove any excess oil with a warm dry towel, leaving the skin deliciously fragrant and moisturised.
Do I need to bring anything with me?
No. Just a body yearning to be massaged, and a heart that is warm and open to receive the massage.
Do I need any prior tantric experience for the massage?
You don't need any previous experience of Tantra to receive any of my massages. I will explain everything necessary about the session before it begins. If you have any questions please do ask me. The TAO Erotic Massage, the Tantalizing Tantra Touch Tour of Your Chakras (T5 - YC), and the Multi Orgasmic Massage are excellent Tantric massages to start with.
I have problems with my erection – can I still have a Tantra massage?
Tantra tells us that however your body may respond, that is perfection. It doesn't matter whether you have an erection or not; you can still experience the powerful and sometimes transformative nature of Tantra. I respectfully suggest that you just let go of any judgments or views about getting an erection and allow your body to sink into, and enjoy, the massage being offered. It is entirely possible to experience ecstasy in the Orgasmic Corridor without an erection.
What is the cancellation policy?
If more than 48 hours' notice before the start of the appointment is given, a 90% refund, or a free re-scheduling is available on request; If less than 48 hours' notice before the appointment start time is given, no refund will be made, but re-scheduling can be offered with a 10% surcharge.